Prepare your Advance Directive & Living Wills
caringinfo.org
State-specific advance directive resources from the NHPCO and CaringInfo
fivewishes.org
A program created by “Aging with Dignity” providing a user friendly, and comprehensive advance directive program
freewill.com
A free step-by-step online form that can be easily filled out by and for individuals
americanbar.org
American Bar Association
Links to state-specific advance directive forms from the American Bar Association
nhpco.org
National Hospice & Palliative Care Organization
Informational breakdown of how to understand and prepare an advance directives & living will
aarp.org
American Association of Retired Persons
Free state-specific advance directive forms and resources for caregivers
nia.nih.gov
National Institute of Aging
Advance care planning guide for future medical decisions and directives
instituteforhumancaring.org
Providence Institute for Human Caring
How to discuss, select and complete an advance directive with family and your doctor
Taking control of your future means being prepared — no matter your age. A living will, also known as an advance directive, is a legal document that lets you express your medical care preferences before you're ever in a situation where you can't speak for yourself. This is especially important for young adults, college students, and unmarried partners who may not realize that family members or legal guardians make decisions by default in medical emergencies unless you’ve stated otherwise.
Advance directives allow you to clearly outline choices about life-sustaining treatment, resuscitation, pain management, and end-of-life care. You can also designate a health care proxy or medical power of attorney — someone you trust to advocate for your wishes. Many young people put off this step, assuming it’s only for older adults or those with health conditions. But the reality is that life is unpredictable, and planning ahead is a form of empowerment, not pessimism.
At Haley’s Choice, we help you take the first step by pointing you to state-specific forms, educational guides, and free tools and resources from trusted partners like CaringInfo, the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization (NHPCO), and Five Wishes, which offers a uniquely compassionate approach that goes beyond legal documents to address emotional, spiritual, and personal concerns.
Creating a living will is not about expecting the worst — it’s about being heard, supported, and respected when it matters most. By setting up an advance directive now, you relieve future burdens from loved ones and make sure your voice always stays in the room. Taking action today helps protect your autonomy and ensures that care aligns with your values, no matter what comes your way.